tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post2695144210729580028..comments2023-03-24T17:22:02.805-07:00Comments on Vote for my Orgasm: Judgement Day 3 - Almost thereKirstenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05971552908955411170noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-75181724865845632632007-02-03T11:14:00.000-08:002007-02-03T11:14:00.000-08:00I am sure he will not threaten me if I should deci...I am sure he will not threaten me if I should decide to leave. I know him too well for that.<br /><br />If you really care about this checklist, I can tell you how many yes there were, but I will not take any actions against my master and lover because of some checklist in the internet. At the moment your link isn't working, I will try it again later.Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05971552908955411170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-30297113052083942602007-02-03T11:10:00.000-08:002007-02-03T11:10:00.000-08:00That probably would be clearer if I said "such as ...That probably would be clearer if I said "such as making you say".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-75821110411961833382007-02-03T11:08:00.000-08:002007-02-03T11:08:00.000-08:00Are you willing to tell us how many things you che...Are you willing to tell us how many things you checked? Did you check any red questions?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-64842187526940315992007-02-03T10:49:00.000-08:002007-02-03T10:49:00.000-08:00If the punishment is severe and unbearable, what k...If the punishment is severe and unbearable, what keeps you with him? I believe there is a chance that he is threatening you with something if you leave, but he is forcing you into lying by saying that it's love that keeps you there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-67815979832572605872007-02-03T07:32:00.000-08:002007-02-03T07:32:00.000-08:00At the moment I am really feeling I have given my ...At the moment I am really feeling I have given my release up for his pleasure, because his orgasms at least doubled since we started this. I am constantly horny and giving him pleasure is the only thing I could do to get some satisfaction.<br /><br />I read the Christians site, and I had the vote yes a few times. But I love my partner very much and I will not risk losing him because of some checklist.<br /><br />He is definitely not confused, be he can be a very cruel person. He doesn't threaten me and I can walk out of this whenever I like - although this means I will lose him. If I want out of this and stay with him, I face a very severe punishment, which makes it hard for me to escape this.Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05971552908955411170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-43387211010650253242007-02-02T11:20:00.000-08:002007-02-02T11:20:00.000-08:00I can't tell if your "master and lover" is cruel o...I can't tell if your "master and lover" is cruel or just confused. If he's cruel, I hope he hasn't made it difficult for you to escape. If he's confused, he should realize that it doesn't make him weak if he stops a "game" when it starts harming someone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-6735841697202092332007-02-02T10:48:00.000-08:002007-02-02T10:48:00.000-08:00"You should be happy to give up your release for h..."You should be happy to give up your release for his." Maybe that would make some people happy, but it is difficult to be happy with a coerced situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-76417668046977019962007-02-02T05:18:00.000-08:002007-02-02T05:18:00.000-08:00Even if you promised to do this, that doesn't mean...Even if you promised to do this, that doesn't mean he has to be callus towards you. Does he even tell you he loves you and does he try to comfort you, or does he just mock your situation and refuse to acknowledge that you have feelings? The line between BDSM and abuse is a difficult line to see sometimes. If a relationship is feeling like abuse it might indeed be even if it is being dressed up as "BDSM". I don't know much about your relationship except what you post here, but you might want to take a look at this checklist: http://www.christiansandbdsm.com/abusechecklist.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-72541937896609914342007-02-02T01:22:00.000-08:002007-02-02T01:22:00.000-08:00you're feeling anxious now, because you aren't get...you're feeling anxious now, because you aren't getting the release that you're used to, but it will pass. Concentrate on pleasing your Master, his pleasure should give you pleasure. You should be happy to give up your release for his.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-22363446634100553922007-02-02T00:26:00.000-08:002007-02-02T00:26:00.000-08:00Of course I don't want this. I never expected this...Of course I don't want this. I never expected this to go that far. But it was my idea in the beginning, and I promised my master and lover to follow along, no matter what happens. I committed myself to the rules, because I was not aware what they could mean to me. And I am pretty sure my master and lover didn't expect such an outcome either.<br /><br />Next time I will think about such a decision more carefully, but this time it is too late to turn back. Fortunately I expect to orgasm on Sunday anyway.Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05971552908955411170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-86265209816197590852007-02-01T13:28:00.000-08:002007-02-01T13:28:00.000-08:00I'm not sure you would have that anger if this is ...I'm not sure you would have that anger if this is something you wanted or enjoyed. Were you alowed to discuss your feelings, or did he just decide to punish you. If he is making you do this against your will and is unwilling to talk about your feelings or provide any other "aftercare", then your situation may be closer to abuse than BDSM.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-54714109260808222992007-01-31T16:25:00.000-08:002007-01-31T16:25:00.000-08:00I'm actually male. Maybe that changes things somew...I'm actually male. Maybe that changes things somewhat, I dunno.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-84342014750316839052007-01-31T09:22:00.000-08:002007-01-31T09:22:00.000-08:00anonymous, Your first couple of points are true. A...anonymous, Your first couple of points are true. As for your claim that they are unnecessary, I don't believe that is true. Sexual arousal may cause vasocongestion, myotonia, and alteration of brain chemistry. If these things cause discomfort and distraction, then release is probably a good idea.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-38282283105749358722007-01-30T20:21:00.000-08:002007-01-30T20:21:00.000-08:00I have been stimulated and I have been not. It's p...I have been stimulated and I have been not. It's pretty easy either way. Also, my first time probably wasn't that long, but that's more a willpower issue. I don't have a second person here; it's all solo. And, truthfully, I don't do it for denial purposes. I refrain from orgasms because they take up time that I could use for other things, carry the risk of being discovered, are messy and require cleanup, and are overall unnecessary.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-91812644137627823362007-01-29T21:31:00.000-08:002007-01-29T21:31:00.000-08:00::Chuckles:: I have not experienced it. but yes I...::Chuckles:: I have not experienced it. but yes I do believe that your body can get used to orgasm denial.<br /><br />Maybe not completely used to it.<br />But if you do 4 weeks for several times in a row and then do 5 weeks it won't be as hard. you won't be as frustrated and you'll endure it better.<br />you're mind and body will get used to it and it won't be as hard. with similar teasing that is. teasing can change things loi. ;)<br /><br />Good luck with your orgasm chance. :) you deserve it.Dracohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857581755571541775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-84932844112447832022007-01-29T08:19:00.000-08:002007-01-29T08:19:00.000-08:00I recognise you. You live in Sweden, dont you? :DI recognise you. You live in Sweden, dont you? :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-2957926725464262592007-01-29T04:43:00.000-08:002007-01-29T04:43:00.000-08:00anonymous,
Are you stimulated?
Did you go months ...anonymous, <br />Are you stimulated?<br />Did you go months your first time?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-51043518896603680632007-01-28T18:48:00.000-08:002007-01-28T18:48:00.000-08:00I've gone months without an orgasm, personally. It...I've gone months without an orgasm, personally. It's really not that hard, IMO.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-5985056367757257792007-01-28T12:35:00.000-08:002007-01-28T12:35:00.000-08:00There are women on a site who have gone for months...There are women on a site who have gone for months. Nuns can go for a long time (but they are not stimulated either). Practicioners of Tantra stimulate themselves but hold off on release to spread orgasmic feelings throughout their body.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-36803374848857112007-01-28T12:31:00.000-08:002007-01-28T12:31:00.000-08:00I am located in Europe, there is no defined time f...I am located in Europe, there is no defined time for the session. This time we did it at Sunday morning, The poll said 202 more votes for yes than for no. The time under the posts does not match our local time, don't know why this is so.<br /><br />Sirdraco, do you really think one can get used to this kind of denial? Have you ever tried to go without an orgasm for that long? I cannot believe the body can get used to this.Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05971552908955411170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-76052335132693429522007-01-28T11:45:00.000-08:002007-01-28T11:45:00.000-08:00I enjoy seeing your posts. and your frustration a...I enjoy seeing your posts. and your frustration and need are probally enjoyable for your Master as well because if you are not attentive to him you won't cum.<br /><br />However an earlier post says your losing sleep and it's affecting your life.<br />So as such I'll vote to grant your orgasm.<br />It is fun and all. but when it starts affecting you in negative ways it starts being a bad thing and not as much fun.<br /><br />Just use your orgasm as a benchmark too. 3 weeks? 4? whatever it was.. make your next orgasm be at least one week longer of a week. then another. Sooner or later you'll get used to the frustration and it won't be so bad anymore. ;) heheheDracohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857581755571541775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89176393156251623.post-42150140149822507622007-01-28T09:07:00.000-08:002007-01-28T09:07:00.000-08:00When do these sessions happen? And what time zone ...When do these sessions happen? And what time zone are you in? I thought you lived in the Pacific Time Zone (due to time change between sending my posts and time marked on my posts) and had these sessions occur Saturday evening. From around 7-12 pm Pacific Time, you had 5-7 minutes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com